No to Boys with GFs kahit for friends

Years ago, may nakilala akong friend na girl from chat. I gave her my friendster account then and she gave her mine. Nang nalaman niyang may gf ako then, sabi niya na "Si GF na lang ang kausapin mo."

Sabi ko sa sarili ko, "Assuming naman nitong babae ah?"

For you girls, Bakit kayo ganyan na kapag makikipagkaibigan lang ang isang lalake na may girlfriend e lalagyan ninyo ito ng kahulugan?

I know na may mga guys who flirt with girls kahit na they are in a relationship. Pero there are most guys na they are after the friendship. Nakaka-offend sa aming mga guys kapag "inuunahan" ninyo ang lahat ng bagay. Kung itutuloy ninyo yan, for sure e mapapahiya kayo. You lost a good friend and you were hurt dahil naging assuming kayo.

Girls, please (lalo na yung mga bata)! Wag ninyong lagyan ng kulay ang lahat ng bagay. Just accept them as friends. Eventually everything will be clear. By then do your move.